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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 01:34

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

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I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

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On the 31st of Jan this month .

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

Why wasn't Queen as successful in America as in other countries? Then, after Radio Ga Ga, they couldn't even get into the top 40 in America even when these songs were top 10 hits everywhere else in the world.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I was seconnd youngest,

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

How do military families balance personal political views with respect for civilian leadership?

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

I did it because my mum asked me too!

Why does it smell so bad? I noticed that when I move around my vagina has a stench. It’s usually a wet liquid, almost like pee. There’re little to no discharge and it doesn’t hurt or itch.

I will be 64.

She wouldn,t have been !

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

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He knew the spot.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

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But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I waited trembling.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

How do I change a truck’s engine oil?

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Can I have a comfortable life as a nurse in Sweden? Can I buy a house and not worry about the cost of living?

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

I don,t even have a pension.

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And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Ive learnt so much.

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Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I write beautiful poetry .

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

All the time i was locked up.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

But, we were locked up after school.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

This is soul school!.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Was to survive, this bastard.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

I said to her

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

I was very sick at this time too.

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

We all went to grammer schools

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

He resisted the act ,that day.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

I have no regrets .

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

She loved him until the end.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

I was scared of men, in general

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

(And it was in our own minds.)

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

Im still living with it.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

She was in good health!

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

So whats the point in blame.

But it wasn’t much.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

So, i spoilt her more .

What did i know ?

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

I think the readers, may guess!

Especially a lifetime of it.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Why did i forgive my father ?

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

And i lived it daily.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I never cut or harmed myself..

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

I could never make a relationship work though!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

She married twice! .

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

We were not on the streets..

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

When she asked me how she looked .

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

She found it foreign!.

I was 9 years of age.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

One cannot live in the past .

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I couldn’t, believe it.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

It was going to be , some day.

Who then, do I blame.?

I know ,a lot about trauma.

My life is so biszare .

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Comes on , in middle age.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Would this be the day?

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

As i do to all so called friends.?

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

My family never makes their pension either.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

Put me off passion for life!!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.